什麼是待友之道?
- Is it no matter what his decision is, you will support him 100% without saying a word?
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posted by KH at 6:37 PM
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6 Comments:
Sounds deep, but I sort of understanding this.
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if your friend do this:
"no matter what your decision is, will support you 100% without saying a word."
Isn't that all strangers already doing this to you?
What about, "no matter what your decision is, will support you 100% by only saying the good side but not the bad side."
Isn't that one alone is sufficient in providing this feedback? Does one still need a friend to provide these?
Perhaps what you are asking for is deeper than support, maybe confidence, ego, assurance, companionship, solutions...
A lot of people are being critized for being serious, aggressive, or competitive. Is it really fair? Is it really that people who are behaving like any of the above will not be able to find good friends because the friends will abandon them.
A good example is the relationship between father and son. In asia society, this relationship is always tense mainly because the father is usually want to set a good example for the sons to guide them to not repeat the same mistakes that him might have done. On the other hand, the sons will not always be able to receive it well.
In reality, this also happens between friends, lovers, or any relationship. Unfortunately, this could be a person behavior since he was born.
Is this person really at fault? Is behavior change possible? Should we expect people to change?
If being funny or not serious is not acceptable, does the whole picture change?
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