Tuesday, December 30, 2008

簡單的快樂

簡單的快樂

【香腸伯】拜電腦科技之賜,近來有許多人流行在網路上架設自己的部落格,除了用文字抒發自己的心情,還附加許多五花八門的相片,讓整個部落格文圖並茂,生動活潑。一位遠居異鄉的朋友,常常會運用這樣的方式,來發表自己的心情日記,分享所見所聞,供網友們參閱欣賞。

近日發生了許多令人感到哀淒的天災人禍,再加上全球股市的狂瀉暴跌,導致經濟大環境的蕭條衰退,和民生消費的大幅度縮減,使得大家除了小心翼翼拮据的過日子外,無意中,人與人之間,因為環境的現實,而感覺變得苦悶並且尖刻,似乎再也找不到那種原本輕鬆愉快的心情。

我在偶然的空檔中,隨著滑鼠的指標遊蕩著,不經意點上朋友的部落格,讀到對方新發表的一篇日記裡,栩栩如生的描述著,遠方的她,在一個雨後天晴的下午,目睹到兩道色彩鮮豔的彩虹,並且用相機捕捉了美麗的畫面。朋友率真的形容,當她目睹到這樣難得一見的奇妙景象時,無法克制自己興奮的雀躍尖叫,使自己忘情的回到稚童般的天真。

朋友在那篇日記的後面還寫道,當今的社會中,很少有人能放下匆促腳步,抬起頭尋找天空上的一道彩虹,讓自己邁出腳步,走向彩虹的另一端,去找回那最簡單的快樂和幸福。

讀完遠方朋友所撰寫的心情日記,給了我極度的感動,也令我有了深刻的體驗和領悟。

朋友率真、毫無掩飾的抒發每一字、每一句,沒有因當今景氣差的苦悶而感嘆,也沒有任何的咒罵怨言。朋友開朗樂觀的態度,使我充分認知到,即使對眼前的生活感到艱辛,但是,快樂才是生命的泉源。

天上的彩虹,能夠帶給那位朋友,最簡單的快樂,那每一個人的內心深處,是否都應該會有一道屬於自己的彩虹?

Love is

Love is when you just want to be with him/her for no reason eventhough it's just sitting next to him/her.
Love is when he/she suffers, you wish you can take the suffering away and put it on yourself. 
Love is eventhough he/she is doing something totally wrong but you still think that he/she is the most talented person in the world.
Love is when you want to give him/her everything he/she wants and more.
Love is knowing that he/she will always be thinking about you eventhough he/she is not with you at the moment.
Love is knowing that he/she will always support you no matter what you do.
Love is when you are with him/her, you are comfortable to be yourself eventhough it means not looking good.
Love is loving him/her just the way he/she is.

Misunderstand by loved one

How many times have you felt depressed or dissapointed because of being misunderstand by our loved ones? How many times have you tried not to impose more pressure to the loved one but only to end up being understand as "Don't care"? 

If you do feel this way, please don't be sad because there are other people out there that feel the same way as you are. Don't blame your loved one for not understanding you because his/her reaction is only caued by how much he/she care about you. You just have to keep on loving him/her and have faith that one day, he/she will understand you. Good luck for all the people out there that feel misunderstand.